My daughter and son-in-law hoped to celebrate their 15th wedding anniversary with a week-long cruise. Well, as can be imagined, a 15-year marriage had produced a few, uh … entanglements — five to be exact — and so Elizabeth contacted her mother. Cathy was thrilled with the prospect of watching this wonderful brood, ages 1 to 11, and last week the time finally arrived.
These children live very full lives and much of Cathy’s time was spent in Pocatello attending soccer games and practices as well as piano lessons. In between these standard activities though, Grandma Cathy had vowed to make it a fun-filled week. They went to the Idaho Falls Zoo at Tautphaus Park, The ARTitorium, Kid’s Town, and Don Aslett’s Museum of Clean. She invited a cousin to join them and we all celebrated his fourth birthday. She rented a new movie and found several more on Netflix when she needed a break.
And what was Grandpa’s role in all of this excitement? Pretty minor really. Cathy had this campaign all planned out and built around getting the 1-year-old down for a nap around 11 a.m. I helped with a meal or two and planned one single day of activities giving Cathy a breather.
The kids were having a great time and with all of Cathy’s successes, I wasn’t optimistic about what I had chosen to do. My day started by taking the kids to a place along the river where we could cut some willow branches. Then, with some string, the oldest girls, Zoe and Ainsley, learned how to tie square lashings and built a framework from these sticks. They were excited to be able to use their pocket knives (we give each grandchild a pocket knife on their ninth birthday) to trim the branches and cut the string.
The end result of this was a 4-by- foot frame forming rough squares. We called this a Nature Wall, a concept I borrowed from a preschool teacher named Condie Ward. The kids then use the wall to hang natural treasures like bones, leaves and feathers on.
Later that afternoon, we headed out to Market Lake to see the birds. I had scouted this the day before and knew that the owl chick was fairly easy to see in the shelterbelt and that birds abounded in the marsh.
We drove out in two cars, keeping in contact via walkie talkies. When someone spotted a new bird, they reported it on the radio and Zoe wrote it down. At the shelterbelt, we took a walk and introduced them to the owl. Even better, below the young owl was a porcupine, which was a thrilling first for the kids.
The colorful sunset had drained from the sky by the time we left and the marsh was starting to settle in for the night as we tallied our list — 47 bird species, half a dozen turtles, and a porcupine.
I was glad that the kids seemed to enjoy the outings but I still wasn’t sure of my success until I asked them what one thing they would do again. All of them chose the outdoor activities. And when their parents called, they talked about seeing a porcupine and birds, indicating that these were more memorable than I had thought.
I was pleased that they enjoyed the outdoors as much or more than the glitz and glitter of more civilized pursuits. That isn’t always the case with kids these days as the pull of social media, electronic gadgetry and being entertained instead of finding your own entertainment becomes ever more compelling.
Their parents must be doing something right.
Terry Thomas is a wildlife biologist and naturalist. “The Best of Nature,” a collection of more than 100 of Thomas’s best nature essays is available. Pick up your copy at the Post Register or order one through his website, www.nature-track.com and follow him on Facebook, Nature-track.